What do you believe?
I have recently been accused of believing in “everything.” I ask you, what does that mean? I do not believe in everything, I have very specific beliefs. Not only do I have very selective beliefs, but to take it a step further, I take on beliefs that empower me and discard of those that do not. I have a serious question for you. Do you?
Can you simply wrap your head around the fact that you have a choice as to the beliefs that you take on and own? If choosing your beliefs made life easier for you, would you adopt that train of thought? Do you realize that you have a choice?
I want you to understand that you contain a power that is honestly so incredible, your head may spin off it’s shoulders. A power that most people do not even believe exists, because they are so busy being a victim of circumstance. You know, the mindset, the one that tells you that you have to accept whatever life throws your way. To a certain extent that is true. S— happens. We don’t always bring forth circumstances that are favorable. The bigger issue is in the understanding that which we can control. Our personal responses to what happen to us in life. A death, an accident, perhaps the loss of a relationship. You name it it happens to us all.
What is the key factor in creating our life the way we desire. There are a few things that need to come into alignment in order to overcome any obstacle that gets thrown in our direction.The first being the belief that life will throw you curve balls, aka, things that are not necessarily things we desire,. If you believe that life will only dish out good, you are in for a very rude awakening It does not, no matter how hard we try to create. The difference lies in how we approach what happens to us, and how we process it. It is what you do with the curve balls that life throws your way that make the true difference.. this is where your true empowerment lies. Here lies the answer to the negotiation of the hard times.
WHAT IS THE LESSON I NEED TO LEARN? You read that right, when you start to question the hard stuff and examine why it is there, that is where your answer lies. I no longer ask “Why God Me?” I ask “God what am I to learn?”What am I to learn and what is my plan to create what I want in my life. Make no mistake that life with throw difficult times your direction. That is the true essence of life, the good, the bad, the ugly. What do you do with that? There are very basic modalities you can adopt that will aid you in this process we call life.
What you do with that is, keep getting up. Have you ever looked at your life and then at an other’s and said to yourself, “And I thought I had it tough?” Why do you think that you have the ability to look at another persons circumstances and felt better about yours? It is there to teach you how to control your responses to what happens in your life. The quicker you realize this, the better off you will be. I am not going to sugarcoat this for you. This is the truth. The truth no one wants to tell you. Get with the program, stand up, make your choices, and go forward. Plain and simple, understand? Be persistent, keep your focused energy on where you want to go. Take the time you need to allow this thought and vision and goal to permeate into your head. Your subconscious does not like change at all. It will take time to make a differnet thought pattern to take hold, you will be in for an internal battle. Battle that with every fiber of your being. If you have not given a thought to where you want to go, trust me, you will be in the same old place that you have found yourself over and over again. Make a habit to keep your vision at the forefront of your mind. If you have found yourself distracted and not thinking of where you want to be for an entire day, go to bed and plant the seed, OVER and OVER again.
The second belief, that if you maintain a certain perspective on the st— that life dishes out, you can prevail in any given stressful situation. When you stress , you simply nullify any possible good result in a bad situation. Stress is the signal that you are not in alignment. Make the alignment your goal. Take a deep breath and ask the infinite wisdom you have inside you, to provide the answers you need.This is the key to controlling your mind, as opposed to IT controlling you. I beg you to try and challenge this belief. Why? I have tested it over and over again.
The universal law, is to provide you with that which you ask for. It does however need to be in a calmed state in order for you to be able to hear and accept the answers.It does not matter what the circumstances are, be it money, relationships, loss, jobs,etc. Any struggle you have is a sign that you need to evaluate. Alignment is the answer. Evaluate and ASK. Why is this here and what am I to learn? When we understand that we were all put on this earth to learn and evolve, and grow life unfolds itself and can be appreciated for every aspect, be it easy or difficult. This is where the joy in living unfolds. In the moment, whatever that moment beholds. Tragedy, beauty, ease, difficulty, and you become one with that moment. Your true acceptance of whatever comes your way is the key to life, and then asking the question, as to what the best way to deal with the situation. The answers will come, in a calmed state, all you ask for is there.
That is the answer. Do not waste your time asking “Why me?” Why anyone? Ask how do I deal with this, or how do I solve this? How do I learn to accept? Be present in ALL the moments in your life, you will observe your body going in to a calm state of acceptance, even in the most difficult of situations. Is this an easy thing to obtain? Not always, so when you fall, get back up, look around and express the gratitude for the good in your life, and learn to accept, those life hurdles that will inevitably be there. Not one person does not face challenges in life. To truly love life, you need to embrace all that comes your way. You do not necessarily have to love every moment, but you do need to ACCEPT all moments. It is what you do with those moments that makes all the difference.
